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Quote: «Rollo Tomassi is one of the most prominent voices in the globally growing, male-focused online consortium known as the "Manosphere" as well as one of the "Godfathers" of intersexual Red Pill awareness. Rollo is the author of The Rational Male blog, a foundational fixture in the Red Pill community.»[1]
Quote: «The best of the "red pill" gurus is Rollo Tomassi. He's married, has a background in evolutionary psychology.»[2]
Quote: «When feminism assimilates a religion it fundamentally erases the previous faith and overwrites it with feminist-collectivist Unitarianism[wp][3]


  • The Rational Male, 2013, ISBN 1492777862
  • The Rational Male - Volume III. Positive Masculinity, 2017, ISBN 1548921815[4]

The Rational Male - Volume I

The Basics
  1. There is no ONE
  2. The Cardinal Rule of Relationships
  3. Truth to Power
  4. The Desire Dynamic
  5. Imagination
  6. Schedules of Mating
  7. Buffers
  8. Compensation
  9. Alpha
  10. Defining Alpha
  11. The Origins of Alpha
  12. The Contextual Alpha
Plate Theory
  1. Plate Theory I - Abundance & Scarcity
  2. Plate Theory II - Non-Exclusivity
  3. Plate Theory III - Transitioning
  4. Plate Theory IV - Goal-State Monogamy
  5. Plate Theory V - Lady's Game
  6. Plate Theory VI - Scarcity to Abundance
Plugged In
  1. AFC - Average Frustrated Chump
  2. Playing Friends
  3. Letting Go of Invisible Friends
  4. Enter White Knight
  5. The Honor System
  6. The Savior Schema
  7. Inter-gender Friendship
  1. Dispelling the Magic
  2. Identity Crisis
  3. Dream Girls and Children with Dynamite
  4. Kill the Beta
  5. Appreciation
  6. Dream Killers
  7. Have A Look
  8. The Five Stages of Unplugging
  9. The Bitter Taste of the Red Pill
  1. The Evolution of Game
  2. Rewriting the Rules
  3. Navigating the SMP
  4. Just Be Yourself
  5. The Nice Guy - Jerk Spectrum
  6. Beta Game
  7. The Pheromonal Beta
  8. Dread Games
  9. The Meta Games
  1. The Medium is the Message
  2. Just Get It
  3. Dijo Sin Hablar
  4. The Horse's Mouth
  5. Qualities of the Prince
Social Conventions
  1. Operative Social Conventions
  2. AFC Social Conventions
  3. The Paradox of Commitment
  4. Bitter Misogynists
  1. The Disposables
  2. War Bridges
  3. Mrs. Hyde
  4. Hypergamy Doesn't Care
  5. Relational Equity
  6. The Hypergamy Conspiracy
  7. Women & Regret
  8. The Pet
The Iron Rules of Tomassi
  1. Iron Rule I
  2. Iron Rule II
  3. Iron Rule III
  4. Iron Rule IV
  5. Iron Rule V
  6. Iron Rule VI
  7. Iron Rule VII
  8. Iron Rule VIII
  9. Iron Rule IX
  1. The Myth of the Lonely Old Man
  2. The Myth of Women & Sex
  3. The Myth of the 'Good Girl'
  4. The Myth of the Biological Clock
  5. The Myth of Male Looks
  6. The Myth of Feminine SMV
  7. Of Love and War
The Feminine Imperative
  1. The Feminine Reality
  2. The Feminine Mystique
  3. The Wall
  4. The Threat
  5. Positive Masculinity vs. Equalism

The Rational Male - Volume III

The Rational Male Positive Masculinity
The Red Pill Parent
An Introduction to Red Pill Parenting
The Red Pill Parent
The Red Pill Father
Practical Red Pill Parenting
Promise Keepers
Raising Daughters
Relationship Game - A Primer
The Feminine Nature
Feminine Solipsism
Appeals to Reason
The Epiphany Phase Revisited
Plan B
Social Imperatives
Male Space
The Political is Personal
Open Cuckoldry
Positive Masculinity
Rites of Passage
The Second Set of Books
The Red Pill Balance
The Red Pill Lens
Myth of the 'Good Guy'
The Perfect Man
Alpha Tells
Beta Tells
The Reconstruction
The Power of NEXT
The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies
SMV Ratios and Attachment
Humanism, Behaviorism and the Amorality of Game
The Plan



  1. Amazon: About the Author
  2. John Hawkins: 20 Red Pill Quotes From Rollo Tomassi That Will Change How You Think Forever, PJ media on April 29, 2018
  3. Twitter: @RationalMale - 10. Apr. 2019 - 15:47
  4. The Rational Male - Positive Masculinity, The Rational Male am 26. Juli 2017
  5. The legendary 9 iron rules of Rollo Tomassi
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 (4:00)
    Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #2 (13:40)
    NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you've slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 (20:45)
    Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 (30:25)
    NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren't married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 (45:49)
    NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 (52:35)
    Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
    In it's simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.
    Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 (1:03:47)
    It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 (1:12:07)
    Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.
    An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I've detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman's sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 (1:16:34)
    Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you've accepted yourself and presented yourself as a "complete douche" there's no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman's sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don't seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.

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